I learned something today. As soon as you get energy in life you have to use it purely/solely to help others, bring them up too―simultaneously (no waiting, no order! No egoistic intention?).
And then you will deal with the unfriends (animals/parasites) who don't understand this, but you will see more clearly the value of the effort.
Making a point of things (life conception of "right") means you're just defending yourself; it's better to be honest with yourself―that's when you'll be the most creative. Otherwise you'll find you're at a loss of strength for the things you make a point of.
To be successful you must get to a place where you can rest, in which the best of you becomes natural, and you "might" have to steal to get there (so no saying you're "pathetic" or that you're "bad").
(pathetic and bad; two birds with one stone!)